This is an important decision for my life I made lately.. frozen my egg

Yes, I did it!
Most of women maybe still think that we should have a baby when we still young, healthy and are able to produce healthy egg. However, from my point of view, if we have a baby while we still young and not financially independent yet. Won't it cause social problems or occur more problems in the future of our families?

Lots of women in Taiwan will say, I am financially independent because I can move out my born family and because I have my husband to take care and raise me the rest of my life. This is not the independent I defined! When I say independent, it means that no matter you have a husband or not, you can totally raise the kid up by your own ability, saving, and job, without anyone's help.

I know I am more negative with this kind of perspectives but how can we know the man next to us never ever will leave us and the kid alone? How can we put 100% of our trusts on one single little tiny man? After all, our husband still a human being not a god isn't it?

I am not the type of person like gambling because I do not like to lose. I do not like risk stuffs. Yes, I like to win or being careful with things.

That's why I would like to wait until the day I feel right to have a baby than put all my eggs in one basket and wish a man will raise me the rest of my life.

I believe there are more hospital in Taipei can do this but I just random find this one online. Share with you, if you also need the frozen egg information in Taiwan:
http://www.icryobank.com/

Besides, Taiwan is still not as open mind as New York. If one day I want to defrost my egg and get pregnant, I need to have a husband or married. Instead, I believe in New York, I do not need a man to have a baby if I am capable to raise the kid with my financial ability.  Just some extra info to share with you all.

Cheers
and Have a nice day :)

ㄧ件辛酸的事情分享

把這當做ㄧ個小小分享源地吧
之前跟大家分享了許多美食

今天跟大家分享ㄧ個最近知道的事情 ～ 也許是大家覺得眾所皆知的事情 但是至少曾經身邊的朋友是不知道的

ㄧ個在紐西蘭長大的台灣朋友 也許懷念台灣文化 想隨時更新台灣的新知 記得他曾經跟我說 他常常有意見需要 或是想知道些台灣在發展什麼東西 就會上奇摩的隻是加查詢
不要覺得我打錯字

只是不希望他們覺得我指名道姓 你我知道我在說啥就好

最近ㄧ份身邊朋友的小打工 得知 這些知識家的資訊 原來都是假的
今天這個人剖文 明天那個人回文 就是ㄧ個團隊的人分工你ㄧ言我ㄧ語填充的

所以這個時代
媒體不能相信
現在連這種以民眾的意見為主的發文網頁 也是被灌水 不能相信的廣告了～～
實在很心酸

所以這個世代
有什麼事情 是可以相信的

有什麼事情 是不能的

你相信的事情 是真的嗎？

看到另外ㄧ位朋友
帶著他的小三來跟我們吃燒烤
身為女人的你 你會跟那位小三說 你成了人家的小三了
還是 你就是靜靜的坐在大夥中 ㄧ言不語的像大家ㄧ樣當做不關自己的事情繼續飲食？


我所記得的時代 是ㄧ個單純 沒有什麼汙染的年代
朋友間可以互相信任 人門之間也是無所不談
什麼時候 我們都如同聖經說的 墮落的世代

我 沒有宗教 也從來不覺得自己會信什麼宗教
但是也許是身邊太多事情的震撼 自己人生經歷的震撼
不得不說 聖經說得ㄧ些事情 讓我開始有所省思

今天就言到此吧
突然發現 能有個空間抒發抒發 是不錯的

my favorite drink. pina colada receipt :)

Step 1: You will need

• 50 ml rum
• 50 ml coconut rum
• 50 ml coconut cream
• 3 pineapple chunks
• 2 scoops of crushed ice

• 1 25ml/50ml measure
• 1 chopping board
• 1 blender
• 1 highball glass
• short straws

Step 2: Prepare your cocktail

Into the jug of the blender add the light rum, coconut rum, coconut cream and crushed ice. Put the blender onto a low speed and blend for about 20 seconds. When blended, pour the drink into the highball glass.

Step 3: Present your pina colada cocktail

Add a slice of pineapple to the side of the glass and enjoy this rich, creamy pina colada cocktail as an aperitif to a light summer's meal.