2012年6月27日 星期三

This is an important decision for my life I made lately.. frozen my egg

Yes, I did it!
Most of women maybe still think that we should have a baby when we still young, healthy and are able to produce healthy egg. However, from my point of view, if we have a baby while we still young and not financially independent yet. Won't it cause social problems or occur more problems in the future of our families?

Lots of women in Taiwan will say, I am financially independent because I can move out my born family and because I have my husband to take care and raise me the rest of my life. This is not the independent I defined! When I say independent, it means that no matter you have a husband or not, you can totally raise the kid up by your own ability, saving, and job, without anyone's help.

I know I am more negative with this kind of perspectives but how can we know the man next to us never ever will leave us and the kid alone? How can we put 100% of our trusts on one single little tiny man? After all, our husband still a human being not a god isn't it?

I am not the type of person like gambling because I do not like to lose. I do not like risk stuffs. Yes, I like to win or being careful with things.

That's why I would like to wait until the day I feel right to have a baby than put all my eggs in one basket and wish a man will raise me the rest of my life.

I believe there are more hospital in Taipei can do this but I just random find this one online. Share with you, if you also need the frozen egg information in Taiwan:
http://www.icryobank.com/

Besides, Taiwan is still not as open mind as New York. If one day I want to defrost my egg and get pregnant, I need to have a husband or married. Instead, I believe in New York, I do not need a man to have a baby if I am capable to raise the kid with my financial ability.  Just some extra info to share with you all.

Cheers
and Have a nice day :)

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